This was a different way of looking at things for me. When I think of being happy, I tend to think of it as something I will be in the future. After the kids are grown, after the bills are paid, after this trial is over. I don't usually look at it as something happening right this minute. In ways I don't always understand, we are all chasing a dream. We all want to be happy, and even more important, we all want to be happy right this minute.
This simple quote made me think for a moment. What if happiness really isn't the goal? What if it is supposed to be something that we all experience along the way. There are times when I have been incredibly happy. When I felt really good about what was going on in my life. There have also been times when I have been caught up in depression and despair. Times when happiness seems to be completely out of my reach, and when I am absolutely sure it will never come to pass.
What makes the difference between those two extremes? I would have to say that it is my own state of mind. It is how I am experiencing the world around me right at this moment. It is what I am focusing on, what I am hearing, who I am being. The difference is within myself. It is looking at whether the glass is half full, or half empty. It is realizing that it is the same glass and it has water to drink just waiting for me to partake.
So, if happiness isn't the goal, what prevents me from being happy all the time? What is stopping me from experiencing joy right now in my individual journey? That is an answer I am pondering and studying. It is the question that I really want to know. With all the trials in my life, I am pretty sure that they are not over yet. So, there is going to be more times of anxiety for me to go through. I would really like to change the anxiety into at least a few times of happiness. I would like happiness not to be something I am chasing, but something that is happening right now, inside myself.
Perhaps it is a matter of realizing that happiness isn't the same thing as "fun". Happiness isn't necessarily laughing and giggling throughout the day. I believe that happiness is that calm, peaceful feeling you get when you know you are doing the right things for the right reasons. Happiness for me, involves faith and trust. It is in knowing that everything will work out just the way it is supposed to. It is the peacefulness that I feel after a trial has passed and I have survived. Happiness, is a state of being.